WHAT IS LOVE, ANYWAYS?

What is love anyways? Is there even a true blue, for-real definition? I think not. Love to me, is something felt between two people meant only to be together, with each other and no one else. I believe that there is no true definition for, real love, for it is indefinable.
This is not from my own personal experience, but I think that the statement, “people love others not for who they are, but how they make them feel,” is bogus. From looking and observing others relationships from an outside view I think that people get too caught up in piling onto their ego’s rather than being in it for the long haul. I don not necessarily agree with that fact but, hey, it’s not my relationship to be had. I always thought true love wouldn’t roll with those punches. I think at this age though, the extent of relationships amounts to that and that’s about all. With most people, anyways. I also, from the outside looking in, think that people date other people not for who they are, but more to just they have or are. Or so they can brag to their friends, and say that they have. Now, with my own personal experience I think that statement is true and false. I was brought up to believe true love is never take, take, take but rather push and pull to reach a common goal. Love, is not what other people constantly have to say to make you feel good, being with them, talking with them should handle that. Most girls my age, go out with boys because they’re cute or they say something nice, not because of the person that they really are. Because they are usually terrible people. But that one time they say that one nice thing and they think that they are drop dead head-over-heels in love. But maybe they are, its not really my point to judge. So, personally, from my own personal experience I have found that statement to be 100% false, false, false. I like to think that I save a pretty good definition of what love really is, and what a healthy companionship should feel like. I don’t believe in lying, cheating, or any relationship where someone always feels hopeless, for to me, that is no relationship at all. If it is a relationship that is a one-way street, so to speak, then it is no relationship at all.